“This post is sponsored by Everywhere Agency on behalf of Primrose Schools; however, all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own.”
I know how you’re feeling. The rushing around trying to make breakfast, cleaning up baby poop, letting the dog in, rushing the kids to get dressed; aka the never-ending morning rush when you’re trying to make your way out the door. Mom guilt as a working parent can come at you hard when you compare yourself to the mom you think has it all together. Let me tell you, she doesn’t. None of us do.
Conquering the Mom Guilt
Even though I work at home, I still put Max in preschool. *GASP* I know. I’m a work at home mother and I do what? Did you know that 76% of all moms say that they are so busy, they often can’t finish everything they need to do in a day? Seventy-six percent. Are you surprised? Probably not.
Working from home or from an office is hard for any parent out there. Sometimes you have to lean on the resources around you to survive your daily routine and get stuff done. For me, that’s finding someone who can step in and fill my role for a couple of hours a day. Having that someone there to rely on day in and day out is the biggest blessing you can as for as a work at home parent. Who is that person? Max’s teacher.
Creating a Balance
Most of you know I’ve been a Primrose mama for years as my boys have attended their schools. For those of you who don’t know about Primrose, they are a national family of accredited early education and care schools serving infants through kindergarten. When 56% of parents with children under age 18 say it is difficult to balance the responsibilities of their job with those of their family, something has got to give.
Having a school like Primrose to lean on means I can get important deadlines finished while Max is learning executive function skills to prepare him for kindergarten. Primrose aims to nurture curiosity, confidence, creativity, and compassion. There is no mom guilt as a working parent from me as I know he is learning the knowledge he needs to succeed in life while I’m providing for our family. This is our balance.
Feeling like you’re drowning with no support is hard. I try to make every effort to be there for all my other working parent friends in any way I can. This can be watching each other’s kids for date night. It could be cooking dinner and bringing it over because they haven’t had time due to sports and don’t want to eat out again. It can be any menial or large task that they need. Having a support system in place to help each other out is key. You should have no guilt in a helping hand. It takes a village!
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Conquering mom guilt as a working parent can be hard but I promise you, you’ve got this and you’re doing a great job.
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Thanks so much for this post. My wife and I both work full time and this is a common conversation that we have. This perspective is so good and is something we’ll come back to when the guilt takes over.
It’s so hard creating balancing everything! Mom guilt is something I know a lot of my close moms struggle with!
Thanks for the reminder to,let it go!
Jenicia Beckstrand says
Parenting is rough. I think we all need a little reminder like this. Sometimes I need one every day! Especially with a new baby on the way I often find myself thoughts in a panic mode of how I’m going to do it all.
Sandra Joaquin says
We are enough, we are worthy, and we are His. Our kids love is just like God’s and they will see in the future all the sacrifice we do today. It will be okay. Thank you for giving us inspiration.